Others worry about their partners perception and like to introduce the concept gently. End result - most people hide or play down their actual preferences but for a multitude of reasons.Ģ. Some others hold those prejudices themselves and self-stigmatise without the help of anyone else. And yet despite this shift in acceptance, so many think that being really honest about what they like will severely limit their play with others who are 'openly anti bi' or perceived to hold homophobic views as they will be seen by these individual as gay and ostracised. In reality the scene is very different now, with varied participants - from the wife-swappers of yore, to soft play, cuckold, bdsm and all types of fetish and kink in between. It's a hangover from swinging being synonymous with the painfully heterosexual pastime of "wife swapping" I think. Certainly I think a very high percentage of people on the swinging scene are (just from observation over the years) however if you asked people to self classify it would look instead like a tiny percentage. I believe a vast majority of people are on the bisexual spectrum somewhere.
I guess everyone has their own slant on the definition, so I'll give *my* view but remember I'm not saying this is the same for everyone. (Incidentally, we have started a group for anyone wanting to explore their bi side a bit more, so go check that out if it's of interest, only just started but from tiny acorns etc.)
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We are new here so sorry for diving right in on one of the biggest burning issues of modern life and I am going to write a long reply this time, just as it's a pet subject of mine and I'm bored Feel free to skip to the tl/dr bit if you can't be bothered to read it all.